|  | LINDA MALNACKAnd So Because We Don't Want To We do. We dangle the flame beforethe wick and watch it grab hold like
 a thirsty child or a madman handling
 
 the merchandise who walks out
 without paying. We've forgotten
 what good weather is and what good
 
 manners will get us—tea, asparagus,
 a pot of mayonnaise gone opaque under
 candlelight, dinner for ten with gilded
 
 patrons and jewel-studded benefactors.
 Everywhere there is a philanthropist,
 someone giving, someone taking.
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